Wednesday, January 19, 2005



but on the upside, last night i had one of the best meals of my life....Beyond India



Sunday, January 16, 2005



I've had so little of it lately, for the last five months or so, now I have a little...
well I'm just sitting in it and i'm not in a hurry to fill it up with STUFF...



Friday, January 14, 2005

There are a lot of wonderful women in this world, with great big hearts full of grace and courage. A little fairy tale for you to savour… King Arthur and the Witch Young King Arthur was ambushed and imprisoned by the monarch of a neighbouring kingdom. The monarch could have killed him but was moved by Arthur's youth and ideals. So, the monarch offered him his freedom, as long as he could answer a very difficult question. Arthur would have a year to figure out the answer and, if after a year, he still had no answer, he would be put to death. The question?...What do women really want? Such a question would perplex even the most knowledgeable man, and to young Arthur, it seemed an impossible query. But, since it was better than death, he accepted the monarch's proposition to have an answer by year's end. He returned to his kingdom and began to poll everyone: the princess, the priests, the wise men and even the court jester. He spoke with everyone, but no one could give him a satisfactory answer. Many people advised him to consult the old witch, for only she would have the answer. But the price would be high; as the witch was famous throughout the kingdom for the exorbitant prices she charged. The last day of the year arrived and Arthur had no choice but to talk to the witch. She agreed to answer the question, but he would have to agree to her price first. The old witch wanted to marry Sir Lancelot, the most noble of the Knights of the Round Table and Arthur's closest friend! Young Arthur was horrified. She was hunchbacked and hideous, had only one tooth, smelled like sewage, made obscene noises, etc. He had never encountered such a repugnant creature in all his life. He refused to force his friend to marry her and endure such a terrible burden, but Lancelot, learning of the proposal, spoke with Arthur. He said nothing was too big of a sacrifice compared to Arthur's life and the preservation of the Round Table. Hence, a wedding was proclaimed and the witch answered Arthur's question thus: What a woman really wants, she answered....is to be in charge of her own life. Everyone in the kingdom instantly knew that the witch had uttered a great truth and that Arthur's life would be spared. And so it was, the neighbouring monarch granted Arthur his freedom and Lancelot and the witch had a wonderful wedding. The honeymoon hour approached and Lancelot, steeling himself for a horrific experience, entered the bedroom. But, what a sight awaited him. The most beautiful woman he had ever seen, lay before him on the bed. The astounded Lancelot asked what had happened. The beauty replied that since he had been so kind to her when she appeared as a witch, she would henceforth, be her horrible deformed self only half the time and the beautiful maiden the other half. Which would he prefer? Beautiful during the day....or night? Lancelot pondered the predicament. During the day, a beautiful woman to show off to his friends, but at night, in the privacy of his castle, an old witch? Or, would he prefer having a hideous witch during the day, but by night, a beautiful woman for him to enjoy wondrous, intimate moments? What would YOU do? Noble Lancelot, knowing the answer the Witch gave Arthur to his question, said that he would allow HER to make the choice herself. Upon hearing this, she announced that she would be beautiful all the time because he had respected her enough to let her be in charge of her own life.This story is not just about male/female relations. It’s a fundamental truth that we need to allow ourselves and others the freedom to create our own path, our own way…to be who we really are without fear. The highest love someone can have for you is to wish for you to evolve into the best person you can be. No one owns you, no matter what your relationship. You’re not here on this earth to fulfil the unmet dreams of a frustrated parent, or to protect another person from the reality of themselves or the world. (Marsha Sinetar)Maybe we have both Lancelot and the Witch inside us, right and left brain trying valiantly to form a union. We need to allow the soft intuitive parts of ourselves to be heard, instead of barrelling ahead on our trusty logical stead to a pre determined future. Logic takes you to a place that is justified, but intuition takes you to a place that is true. Let’s remember to calm down long enough to hear that quiet voice in the din of our daily lives.



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